First, we analyzed the areas of your life, which can make improvements. If a person who is disappointed that goes back to the roots of their dissatisfaction and to initiate, formulate plans to improve their lives by them. For some people who do not have enough interaction with other people who want more and their male colleagues. For others, they need more insulation. Some people are trying to lose weight or tone your body, while others want more sleep, or in the fight against the disease. Others want that promotion, or to accept old / lost friends, or to meet the right person for the rest of his life.
However, more than likely improve your life is a combination of these issues (and others). See what you want to improve, when identified, and start brainstorming and discussion with others about how you are. Lovers of the Board of searching go to the library or online and read about these topics, or get professional help from someone with experience with the time and money allow.
Whatever you do, make sure you are honest with them, and that does not compromise on its objectives. Do not ask too fast, or Establish milestones and remember to record the progress and hoped to make his perspective on how far you are. If self-improvement is the loss of weight, as shown on the same day each week and enter your weight in this file, and after a few weeks to go to meet him to see how to get there. It is a new motivation; he is doing what is working!